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The Latest Bit Of Life

There have been many upheavals recently that I am still battling through, so let me sum things up as quickly and neatly as possible.

For those who are not on my FB page and who found out about this rather recently as well, on 21 June of this year, I got married. As of this date, that marriage is swirling the drain irrevocably and I am not in the least bit upset.

I made the mistake of agreeing to a contract marriage that has given me nothing but stress and more emotional and mental strain than I have dealt with since I left New York State almost five years ago. It has been a constant run of emotional and mental abuse and neglect, causing me to become permanently sick, it seems. I am far away from any I know who could shelter myself and my cat until I could find a place of my own, even though I find I like my new state of Texas. He is in the Army, and has proven in my eyes as well as the eyes of other Patriot Guard Riders to be a disgrace. I am trying hard to get out, I am trying very hard just to hold my mind together, and I feel that grasp slipping every day.

I am still here, though, and still holding on as fiercely as ever. I am just having my usual abyssmally bad luck.

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Do you have an RSCPA in your area? See if they have a "Safe Beds for Pets" program, or if any other shelter has a similar thing. They can take care of the mog for you while you find a spot.

Sounds like loads of fun for everyone, hope you work something out and soon.

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No he-bitch can you stop you Stormy. You're a fighter, always have been, always will be. Just remember that even if we can't be there for you like we want to, we're rooting for ya all the way.

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Sorry to hear about the downward spiral. Hopefully you can get through it all and your health returns to you once it becomes just a horrible memory and nothing more later down the track. Wish I could help you somehow in the meantime however...

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Thanks all. It feels better even telling people I'm married. That right there should have been a warning to me, the fact that he... requested... I not tell anyone. What is the right in that? I am working though, I finally found a job that suits my needs and pays at least a survivable wage, so it is merely time now until I have what I need to get out. Once I have done that, may Loki help him with the divorce itself. This man has opened up a major can of psycho evilness that will be hard to defeat until I want it to end.

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How's this for irony? On the day I posted this, he filed for divorce. It took a few days to actually reach me, I do the day sleep thing again because I'm back on thirds, and attached to the divorce paperwork was a RESTRAINING ORDER. According to a lawyer I showed it to, asking why, she said that it's standard procedure here in Texas. Kinda funny, no one else seems to have heard of that. So. I had to go to court the next day to try and get it taken away, and instead I was court ordered to move out by today, 5p local time, which meant a mad scramble to find a room to let that would work with me and my cat. I was successful, but it cost me a day of work that I have to make up... Today. The day I need to be out.

On a good note, because of this BS restraining order, I'm pretty certain I can have the pre-nup thrown out as it stated a divorce would be nice, neat and tidy. It's not. And it's gonna get REAL nasty REAL fast.

I hope he enjoyed his time in the Army, because he just woke up a big ol' evil beast.

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That is a total shock to me. The guy's a grade-A ass hole and he is the one who files for divorce?

The time frame you were given by the court to be out of there was a complete joke, but really glad you were able to find a place.
Hopefully things will improve from here on out and not having him in your life for 2013 is a pretty good start to the year.

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Save for the upcoming divorce fight... That's gonna be fun, I can assure you.

But I do hope 2013 is more my year. I need a real fresh start on things.

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Sounds like you put the fear of something into him already if there's a restraining order. Must be the bloody avatar ;) Good luck!

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He's doing everything, and has been doing everything since we got married, to screw me over. I'm finding out more and more with every day, my blood pressure is DEFINITELY up because of it, but I will be speaking to a lawyer tomorrow. And if this guy's as good as advertised, I almost feel sorry for the jerk.

Almost.

Naaaah, who am I kidding? I won't feel the least little bit sorry for his dumb arse!

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rofl...knowing your intolerance for morons it's going to be hiliarious what happens to him when he wakes to the fact he's not dealing with a woman, but a dragon in disguise....breathe on Stormy! Fire his arse!

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Hope your lawyer helps put him though hell.

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Well, the lawyer can't help me, I got burned with the pre-nup (note to self, no more of those in the future!) but if Karma is kind, he will die a lonely old man. I will survive, I always seem to. Next step, get a reliable net connection again. After, of course, the Jeep Of Doom gets her needed repairs...

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Well, things got more interesting where I was living. The borderline sociopath that my very soon to be ex-landlord is theoretically married to finally crossed the line. I am tired of being harassed, threatened, and terrorized, so I am now in a motel room with my mouthy kitty. I am trying to round up a couple big scary guys to help me get my stuff out, and I will have a local police officer there to act as civil protection. The woman is SCARY, and anyone who knows me knows I don't scare easily. I get the feeling she will try something, so the big scary guys and the officer will, or should, keep her at bay while I pack and get things out. I do plan on filing charges against her for it once everything's out.

Also, with a missing paycheck, my suspicions are growing that she or her kids took the check when it was delivered. The post office has been contacted, and the deliveryperson confirmed that mail was delivered to me. So, that means, it was taken by someone in that house. Now, I get to start an investigation against them and find out the truth of it.

Yeah, fun week. At least all the OT I've been given this week will assist in getting an apartment. I have an eye on one that, although, VERY small, will suit me as I start to rebuild. It's not like I have all that much... ^^;

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Yeesh.  I hope this means you've burned all your bad luck and are about to enter a chapter of pure awesome.

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So do I, Tor... I could use a bit of a break from the normal... ^^;

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Damn, I likewise hope things start picking up from this moment onward.